मुझे दिल में बसाना आसान नहीं....

पता है Recently i realised

की मुझे दिल में बसाना आसान नहीं है

बात-बात पे चिढ़ जाती हूं मैं

दिल लगा लूं एक बार तो फिर ज़िद पे अड़ जाती हूं मैं

आंसू यूं तो छुपा लेतीं हूं

मगर कोई एक बार पुछले कि क्या हुआ

तो बस

आँखों से नदिया बहा देती हूँ मैं

गुस्सा बहुत आता है

ख़ुश उससे भी ज़्यादा होती हूँ

जब ज्यादा मुश्किलें आ जाए तो 

मैं सब छोड़ के सिर्फ सोती हूं

शायद किसीने सही कहा है

की दिलमें बसना चाहती हूँ सबके

इससे ज्यादा मेरा कोई अरमान नहीं है

मगर हाँ शायद मुझे दिल में बसाना

इतना भी आसान नहीं है.. .. 😊

We were born to be real. Not to be perfect.....

We are humans and we are not perfect. All, we can say is that we are better than yesterday.

Imagine you're driving down a never-ending highway, always chasing the elusive horizon. The sun is setting, and you feel like you need to reach that vanishing point. That, my friends, is how perfectionism can be. It's like an endless quest for the unattainable.

Do you know what is the truth about perfectionism: it's a myth. See, we're humans, not machines. We're not perfect. And That's okay. What we can say is, we're better than yesterday. It's all about embracing a growth mindset, it opens our mind to learning new things.

Once upon a time, I believed that perfection was the key to success. I thought, if I just get everything perfect, then I'll be on top of the world. But what happened was quite the opposite. I started procrastinating; I became anxious. That's the dark side of perfectionism. It puts the brakes on your journey, and anxiety becomes the backseat driver.

The best you can do is to set realistic standards for yourself, accept and then embrace your imperfections, and yes, focus on progress rather than perfection.

We must aim to learn and improve just 1% every day. This is part of a growth mindset. Even if it is Small, but should be consistent steps and it will take you much further than waiting for the stars to align.And, Trust me, you'll cover more ground when you let go of perfectionism and welcome growth. I have been the victim of this before even putting this post. Like what people will think, I am not good enough in writing but for so many days, I am just putting my thoughts and trying to improve a small % every day. That's I believe the growth mindset.

So, I would like to encourage you to keep moving forward, learn from your imperfections, and make progress toward your perfect goal.

Do you agree? Share your thoughts on what you are going to do today without thinking about perfectionism.

#divyeshdave #thedivyeshd#careergrowth

#communicationskills #thecommunicationclub

You can be a kind person &still:

Kindness is a virtue. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. 

- say no.

-prioritise your needs. 

-set boundaries.

-disagree with people.

-be honest.

-challenge poor behaviour.

- walk away from toxic environments.

-make mistakes.

-standup for yourself.

-protect your time & space.

CREATE THE CAREER DEVELOPMENT PLANS

IMPORTANCE OF CREATE THE CAREER DEVELOPMENT PLANS

Career is most important for mostly every human beings. And some peoples knows how to build the career but still many peoples don't know and sometimes they feel stuck at work or career, but you have options to make a change or start new

Here are explained some simple plans for career development

1. Learn about your role, organization and yourself

When you first enter into any organization or a new role or start new organization then put a high priority on learning. Who are the important peoples foryou? How is the organization structured? How does your role fit into the structure? What are your expectations for success? How does this role align with your strengths, interests, values, and possible next steps? In the Careers, this is where you reflect on your why, and why do you show up to work each day, why this role and not another, how does this role align with your why?

2. Evaluate Skills, strengths and gaps

Knowing How to part of the Intelligent Careers framework. What do you need to know, be able to do, and learn to be successful in your current role? What skills or knowledge areas are you missing, and what could you do to fill those gaps? As you start to think about what comes next, what are you missing in terms of skills, knowledge, and abilities to make that move? Create an ongoing practice of reviewing job descriptions and taking note of the roles, organizations and industries you find interesting, and assess what they are looking for and where are your gaps or mistakes

3. Act to fill your gaps or mistakes.

It means gaining knowledge of different parts of your industry or organization through curiosity conversations and self-study. It could mean seeking out intentional experiences to grow your skills, either within your organization or through professional and civic associations

There is no shortage of opportunities for you to build your skills and develop the knowledge areas you need to move forward; the key is being intentional about it.

4. Reflect On what you've learned

Seek out feedbacks from mentors, sponsors, and wise counselors to effectively process what you are learning, and how you will use that knowledge or skills in the future. This is where the Knowing Whom part of the Intelligent Careers framework is so important. Who is in your network that can help you to make sense of where you are and what comes next?

5. Navigate the What's next

Think where you must decide what comes next. Are there opportunities to progress where you are? If you're ready to make a move, how do you use the data you have collected to make an informed decision? What story are your personal marketing documents telling about your skills, knowledge and abilities?

You must recognize that your career path is yours, alone and no one is ever going to care about it quite as much as you do

Be aware and be happiness

#mindfulness #motivation #happiness #gratitude #meditation

क्या किया जाये....

मकान जले तो बीमा ले सकते हैं.

 सपने जले तो क्या किया जाए...

आसमान बरसे तो छाता ले सकते हैं 

आँख बरसे तो क्या किया जाए...

शेर दहाड़े तो भाग सकते हैं

अहंकार दहाड़े तो क्या किया जाए...

काँटा चुभे तो निकाल सकते हैं

कोई बात चुभे तो क्या किया जाए...

दर्द हो तो गोली (medicine) ले सकते है

 वेदना हो तो क्या किया जाये..........